First, this woman doesn't know how to behave. Her maturity level is lower than most 12 year olds. It scares me that she is a mother and what they are going to become with this bad influence around. The neighborhood is filled with children. They run around and ride bikes. They have fun on a Friday night. All is innocent, all is kind. Sure, sometimes a friend or two might have a disagreement, but that is a kid for you. She just doesn't understand that children should not just lock themselves in their bedrooms playing video games and doing drugs. When I was a kid, we were outside, every day, playing, getting muddy. She doesn't seem to grasp that concept. Children used fowl language and made just as poor decisions back in my younger days as they do now. My brother for example, can be a tool. I remember being just as much a tool. The WORST word that has come out of his mouth is the "frick". I yelled at him for it; he doesn't understand that I don't want my 4 year old to repeat that. He apologized and watches his mouth around them. But in a world of growing up with drugs, sex and the word Fuck every second of your life, I think he has come out pretty good so far. MY PARENTS ARE WONDERFUL PARENTS! One of the best pair of parents that you could ever meet. They have made their mistakes, I have been their guinea pig on some issues; I've accepted it. I try to be the best mother that my children could ask for, and I hope I can succeed; but I will also make some horrendous mistakes.
New section of this subject. My sister. She is the sweetest, most insecure and sensitive chicklin ever. She has always cried at the drop of a pin, and will always make you smile when you want to punch a person. She has the most hilarious laugh that you can't help but laugh with. I remember when she was born (I was almost 10 years old) and I remember all the memories of her. That was the age that I decided that I want a baby of my own like her some day. She was such a wonderful little squirt. Today, she is growing into a beautiful young woman. A senior this coming fall, she has more talent and beauty than most people can show in their lifetimes. She is an amazing photographer, and I give her credit for it. She picked up a piece of crap camera 2 years ago and never stopped. Then she "borrowed" my nicer camera and never gave it back. Today, she takes pictures of just about everyone and everything and can make cigarette butts look like art. It's amazing. Sure, she has room to grow, even Bill Gates has room to grow; but her talent at such a young age astounds me. I never think to take my children into a studio because I know they could never capture what she is capable of.
This "woman" called my sister's photo "trite" one day. She wrote her opinion in a sea of "wonderful's" and "Amazing's". This set me off. This woman, who thinks she is an amazing goddess of photography because she took a college course told my sister that her photography is trite. That was my first impression of her, and I continue to grow hatred toward her every day.
Next, she called my baby brother (who just turned 12) a thief. Now, I have had my children steal something unintentionally at stores and I have never thought they were thieves. When I worked in retail, I used to get embarrassed mothers bringing their children in to tell me that their child stole something; I understand. It's called ID (simple psychology). My brother, however, never had anything to do with this "mix-up". She continued to tell my father that he intentionally stole this stupid, piece of crap, Walmart toy. She's a bitch. Simple enough.
Another incident is when my neighbors (people I have known for over 12 years and went to school with) had a wedding. My high school friend was getting married and they had the wedding in her backyard. There were cars EVERYWHERE! This was nothing compared to when she graduated by the way. When my family was trying to peak at her dress, this "woman" was calling the cops because of all the cars parked in the neighborhood. LAST TIME I CHECKED; the neighborhood had public parking. You park where you want. In yards, fine. In your driveway, fine. In the street, great. They weren't bothering anyone but this "woman". She has nothing better to do but to complain because her life isn't that great. So the cops were called. The cops told her that they were fine and parked legally. Did my family mind that their front yard was filled with a million vehicles? Absolutely not. Was it sometimes annoying to try to get out of our own driveway? Probably. But they left it be and were happy for my neighbor because that was a special day for that family. But "woman" just couldn't let it go and shut her fat assed mouth. What a great memory for my neighbor's wedding day. Oh yea, we had a wonderful ceremony then had some cops show up and we had to pause the festivities and offer them an egg roll to apologize for wasting their time when they could have stopped a rape or murder. Dumb bitch.
Next, Memorial day. The neighbors were having a good ol' time shooting off some fun fireworks. This was the first year that our state has legalized fireworks that make noise and go in the air. They were having some good, safe, and legal holiday fun. She had to, again, be a bitch and call the cops on them. Ruined everyone's good time. Believe me though, I have some BAD ASSED FIREWORKS that will be shot off hard core all night 4th of July in my parent's front yard!
Next, she had our neighbor's cars towed away because THEY WERE PARKED OUTSIDE HER HOUSE IN THE ROAD!!!! I'm sorry, she rents. She doesn't own the street. I have never even had to ask the neighbors to move their cars in all the years that they have been parking them in front of our house. I have also parked my van outside their house because there was no parking. The audacity of that woman! She cost the neighbors a lot of money because of parking legally? I've had it.
Now, she is saying that my sister cannot even look at her children. I must say, her children are adorable (don't know how that happened) and my sister has put up with her shit (calling sometimes crying over what she has said to my sister) for a long time because she loves her children. She has now come to the conclusion that she can longer put up with the stress, anxiety and awkwardness of being around this "woman" and finally broke ties with her. She was scared, asked for help, so we all stood by her as a letter was written to this "woman" and told her that this can no longer go on and that their "relationship" was an unhealthy one and it's time to let go. I'm proud of her. There is nothing we wanted more than to have my sister break ties. I'm sick of seeing her hurt constantly. Woman, check your face because your nose is in someone else's business.
So, to Andrea. If you ever come across this blog and see what I have wrote, I'm writing the truth. You are a menace. You are INCREDIBLY un-liked in the neighborhood and everyone wants YOU (not your husband or children) to move. SO do us all a favor and when your lease is up, move to a secluded part of the world where you will have no neighbors and no one to talk to so you never have to burden anyone else with your insecure, anti-social bull shit. Your opinion has never been accepted, wanted or needed. Your big ass on the street is blocking my view of the your children (that will be hit someday by a car because you can't stay in your damn yard with them). You can try to shelter your children from the bad influences in life; but you being the worst of them, they are screwed. You can try to make everyone be just as miserable as you are in life; but we will continue to be happy and HAPPIER because you are no longer in our lives. No, we will never be completely secure in our happiness in that neighborhood until you are far and gone away from this neighborhood but at least nobody is talking to you.
You have made every person in this neighborhood dislike you, loathe you and want you gone. Congratulations, you have no friends. You have nobody to call to help you move a heavy object; you will never get a tray of amazing egg rolls that the neighbors made an overabundance of. You have alienated a whole neighborhood from your bull shit drama. Fighting with teenagers. Mature. I hope you never talk to my sister again. My family again. IF I ever hear of the cops getting called on some bull shit again, CPS will get called about your neglect with your children in the road. IF you ever talked to my sister, I will call the owner and tell him how much of a menace you are to our small society. HE CAN have you removed for it. I've had it. This neighborhood is still my neighborhood, no matter how old I get. This house will always be my home. This means war. You screwed with my wonderful neighbors and my wonderful family for too long and I cannot stand it anymore. I'm a pit bull, and I will bite. Just all in all, one last thing I have to say to you:
FUCK OFF!!!!!!
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